Dear Jeremy not a day goes by that I don't think about you and miss you so very much. I love you so much that it hurts to think that I can't hug you or call you just to talk or go to dinner and a movie. I know you are in heven and that God is taking good care of you until all of us who love you can see you and hold you again. Just know how much you are loved and that you will never be forgotten and I will cherish all my memories with you and hold them close to my heart until I can see you again. Love, Aunt Deb

hey jerm you were the brother i never had i will miss the things we used to do togather. how you gave me bowling lessons but know that your gone living the good life up there with god i dont have a teacher its okay it was good while it lasted YAH BUDDY dj

Damn Jeremy its so hard one day your there then next your gone . i know we only knew each other for two years but we did alot with bowling. you always made it fun . I rember the 1st day i met u we were bowling ill never forget u . you were the best person ever rip jeremy

I wanna turn back time. I wanna see you again. I love you bro. I wish I had told you. I dream about you. I can't stop the tears. I miss you so much. I wish you were here. I am happy for you. I am sad for me. Goodbye for now. I'll see you soon.

Hey Jerm, My days are getting harder. I just want to hold you and make it all better like I use to. But I can't do that this time. And I think that is what hurts me the most. I sit here and think of the past two years. I know that it was hard for you but it was also hard for me. You are my one and only child that I cared for and loved more than anyother person or thing in my life for the past 18 years & 9 months. And no will ever take that away. You were also my best friend. We did so much together such as cuttling up at night and reading bedtime stories when you were a little boy.I loved going bikeriding and rollerblading with you. I think of the times sitting together and tring to figure out some of your homework. The talks we shared when I drove you back and fourth to school hearing how your day was everyday on the way home (I miss all the talks we had) and so, so much more. I think what we had was something no other mother and son had. We had a speical bond and no one can ever take that way from us. I'm so proud of the man you've become. You are surley one of a kind Jerm. So many people loved you. You know Jerm, a parent always wonders if they are doing a good job raising their child. I can truly say we did. I love and miss you so much. P.S. Remember when you use to spend the summer at grandma and papa's. When we talked on the phone and I use to tell you... put your right arm around to your left backside. Ok now put your left arm around to your right backside, now squeeze really hard. "IT'S IS A HUG FROM ME" Love Mommy

Jeremy, I only met you a few times an that I am sorry for but, eveyone keeps saying what a wonderful person you were. I just wanted the Pahel family to know that I am sorry for your loss and I hurt for all of you. God bless all of you and just know that this wonderful young man is in a better place. God bless. Love, Taunya Sellers(Jeff's stepdaughter)

Hey, Jeremy i miss you sooooooo much it really sucks that you are really gone it still is hard to walk in to bidwells with you not there it hurts.The friday before the accident i was telling Chad that i had a little crush on you i was going to tell you on tusday then i get a phone call from Cohen telling me i have to go to bidwells class asap so that is when i found out i was devasted to here the news well i just thought i would tell you that I Love You!!! I Miss You!!! love always Dee!!!

Jerm, I love you so much buddie, I miss you so much, I still can't believe this has happened. Jeremy you are the best thing that has ever happened to me, my bud, my best friend, my Son. I wish I could back up time, but time waits for no one Jerm, you know that after the many talks we have had over the years. Jeremy you have tought me so much, things I didn't even realize until now, too little too late. My only hope now is to try and make you as Proud of me as I am of you. I'm sorry buddie. I miss you. I LOVE YOU SO MUCH! Please wait for me buddie. Dad, XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXO

sweetie, i miss you soo much, our anniversary just passed i missed you so much! i hope heaven is nice! i know your happy! i love you

I never thought that you out of everyone else would have to leave this world. I keep telling myself it's not true, why couldn't have been someone else. This isn't fair. You've never done anything wrong to anyone. I remember everything that we've ever done. LOL especially 4th n 5th grade. I remember how much I loved you. You were my first love and I will always remember you. Ha , remember when it was me and you n justin davis outside my house.....lol n i carved ur name in the tree? Damn. I miss you so much.

i love you man YAH BUDDY THANKS FOR ALWAYS BEING THERE FOR ME REST IN PEACE

jeremy...im sittin here brother and im wondering why i didnt spend a little more time talking to you in ventrilo in these later days. i never thought that you would be gone so suddenly. i never even knew you in person, but im not one to put value on friendship. you were always there for me, i only wish i could have been there for you. rest in peace jeremy, we will always remember you.

May God be with all of the family at this time.

You'll always be in my heart and never forgotten.

Jeremy, you are such a sweetheart. i only got to work with you for little over a year, but you made a major impact on every person you met. you will be truely missed and always remembered. steph, i only knew you from Dance Unlimited and Jeremy, but i wish you the best and my thoughts are with you and his family. xoxo

Jeremy... Damn man i dont know what to say. Honestly you were one of the chillest guys i ever talked to sadly i never chilled with you but the old days on L2 were mad fun. Definately one of the most easy going and nice people i ever met... To the family im sorry for the loss. Rest In Peace bro -Snapple

Man, I can't believe this, you were and still are an awesome person, I'm gonna miss playin L2, I'm at a loss for words really.....but we love ya bro and know you are with us

Jeremy... your an awesome guy man.. I can't believe this could happen to such a great guy... I didn't know you as well as I could of.. We only played lineage 2 me you josh jeff brandon seth adam and if im forgetting any of your online buddies.. im sorry... I just wish I could of gotten to know you better... Rest in peace man... I'll miss you.. along with all your online buddies...

Just saying hey to Fr3ak (Jeremy), haven't talked to you in awhile dude...this sux so bad i can't believe you're gone. Only knew you from Ventrillo and from Lineage2 but you were still my good friend bro...you'll be missed. Peace bro...rest easy man. And Steph i'm sorry for your loss too

this is stephs brother. jeremy was a great friend, great bowling teacher, great boyfriend to my loving sister. i will always remeber the way he kept his cool. even when i made him mad, he played video games when he was supposed to be with my sister. he was a all around good person. he taught me alot about life. even though hes not here, i know hes in a better place now, and he will always be in my heart, and will always be remebered in my family. he will be missed greatly. rest in peace

Jeremy, I don't know where to begin really. I still feel like I'm going to see you at work again.. as much as it isn't true I just can't shake the idea that you're actually gone. Although I only knew you for about a year or so and we never really hung out, outside of work.. you were truly an inspirational person, you made me realize how precious life really is and that it should not be wasted being mad at people or at life. The memories we have from work will forever be in my heart.. and my prayers go out to your family and your girlfriend Stephanie. Until we meet again.. rest in peace.. Love ya kiddo.. jojo

Jeremy- There are so many times when I think about how strange it is that you are gone. But I smile when I think of all the fun moments in Bidwell's room and how much easier you made it on all of us by helping out and just being the easygoing, fun person you were. Thank you ~Chelsey

Jeremy, i cant believe ur gone. there's so many memories that happened in bidwells class. u always came in the room smiling.l I always seen stephanie on ur binder. u were so kind to everyone u loved everyone or u never hated anyone. you were jokeable, caring, loving an loved. i never met someone as kind an loving as you. u were a great friend. u would make someone laugh. u would tell us anything to make u laugh. i just cant beleive ur gone. i walk into bidwells class every even day thinking you'll walk in. i cry everytime. RIP an i'll see you soon. take care.

jeremy i only knew you for about 2 yrs. but i knew u would be a good person to hang out with and be around. u were a kind and loving person. u madea room light up when u walked in. we will all miss you and never forget that big smile u had on ur face everyday even if u were upset...... Stephanie i am sorry for ur loss. i can see why u were with jeremy he loved u so much and always talked about u. i am very sorry and my heart goes out to u. R.I.P JEREMY PAHEL U WILL BE MISSED DEARLY

Pahel......... It is so hard to go one minute throughout the day without a thought of you - then a smile comes to my face - I am thankful for your presence in my life and your loving memory will forever be in my heart..... You were warm and kind - you were my original lovey! I will never eat another lunch without thinking about what you would be eating next to me! Maybe sweet and sour chicken with white rice (I'll eat your soup!!) I love and miss you dearly...... Cohen

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