Happy 21st Birthday Jerm, I can't talk to much it hurts to much today. But I did get a cake for you today and I put some banners and a balloon out by your beanch today. Papa left you a Treasurhunt and I also put a card out for you. Gramma and Papa, Tony and the kids say Happy Birthday. Jerm I Love miss you so much today and every day. Don't forget I'm going to send you 21 balloons today. Love Mommy

Jerm, I know it has been a long time. But there is not a day I don't think about you. I'm still have a time dealing with loosing you. There are so many times I go to call you about something. I drive a lot with work, and that is so hard because I think about you, and what you would be doing today. Your Birthday is soon and I'm having a hard time dealing with it. So look for the balloons on the 5th. I miss you soon much Jerm. Jerm you are my one and only son. The best a mother could ever have. I love you xoxo Mommy

hey jerm. you've been on my mind a lot lately. ever since all of these hurricanes started appearing this year it made me think about the time you and your dad stayed with me and my mom for the hurricanes. we had such a good time and remembering those times always puts a smile on my face. miss you.

Hi Buddy, another tenth, 29 since you left. Next month you will be 21. WOW, I remember all the wonderful Birthday parties you had as a little boy. I mean it was like another Christmas Day at the Pahel house on that very special day. The best gift of all was not one that you received, but the gift you gave to everyone who came to those parties...I just wish you were here to throw me in the pool again this year, Maybe another time. I look forward to it Buddy. Please hold us all close as we celebrate that very special day next month.I miss you desperately, and love you even more then that. Dad

It has been awhile since I have put my thoughts and prayers into words, but that doesn't mean I have not thought of you and your family often. I have come to this website many times to see your great picture and to think fondly of you in your youth. I try to remember: Always blessing, never losses. God Bless you and your family. Aunt Karen

i miss u man your my hero YAH BUDDY

Hi Buddy,I Just wanted to say hello and to ask you for a favor. Please Keep Grama J. close, Help us all Pray for her, and her health. Also thank you for all your blessings. Only God knows how heavy our hearts are, and how much we miss you, yet he keeps us going by all the special gifts from you. I Love You Jerm. Dad

Hi Buddy, 27 months today. thoughts of you always warm my heart, even today. I ask you today Jerm to please warm the hearts of everyone who may have you in there hearts on this very special day. Please show them your grace, just like you always have, and always did. I Love you Buddy. Dad.

Hey Jerm, I guess you have the best spot for the fire works. Sure wish I was with you. I miss you more and more every day. My days are getting harder. I put on this happy face for every one. Put grandma, and grandpa and Tony see that it is fack. They try and help so much. I want you to know that there is not a day goes by that I wish I trade places with you. You had so much to live for. I will be driving and thinking of you and all most drive of the road. But I fell you stop me from that. You are a true ANGLE. I love you Jerm Miss you hug and kiss Love MOMMY

Hi Buddy, another tenth. The 26th one since you left. I still remember it like yesterday. As life goes on for most of us, it is filled daily by wonderful thoughts of you. I pray that you watch over everyone Jerm, I know in my heart you do because you are that kinda person. As Fathers day approaches one of my wishes is to be able to spend it with you, just like everyday! I love you Jerm. Dad.

Hey, Exams week is almost over.. it's been hard I hope you can help me out a little, still miss you so much it's so hard to be stuck in the past when everyone around you is moving on. I know your happy, help me, and your family, to be happy too!

We little knew that morning that God was going to call your name. In life we loved you dearly, in death we do the same. It broke or hearts to lose you, you did not go alone, for part of us went with you the day God called you home. You left us with peaceful memories, your love is still our guide, and though we cannot see you, you are always at our side. Our family chain is broken, and nothing seems to be the same, but as God calls us one by one, the chain will link together again. This comes from some very special family members. Thanks to them for sharing it with all of us. 24 months, where has the time gone? These few days home with you Jerm just makes me feel closer to you, I miss that, but then again I miss everything about you. I Love you Buddy. XOXOXOX Dad.

Hey Jerm, I can't believe that it has been 2 years. I wore the bracelet today with your name on it. I must have had at least 5 people ask me what it was for. When I told them, it brought an ache to my heart, but it also made me smile because I also got to share with them memories I had with you and what an amazing person you were. You are greatly missed and loved Jeremy.

Dearest Jeremy, Just wanted you to know our hearts and thoughts are with you today as every day.You left us two years ago with unforgetable memories that will be cherished forever. Looking at all the picturers from Cherry Park, Charlotte Motor Speedway and Concord Mills makes us smile. We love you and are missing you forever. lotsa love, Grandadd & Grammie Helen

Jerm why does it have to be so hard. There are so many times I want to run my car into a poll to fell your pain. I can't understand why you. You know Rodney and his wife and baby are coming the end of May. I just wish it was you and Steph coming. I'm haveing a hard time with that. He is doning good and Haley too. She is also going to have a baby. Boy every one is going to have babies. I just keep thinking I'm never going to know what its like to be a grama. Please help me with all this. I know I'm asking for to much but you are my angle. You use to help when you were here. I remember all the time we would talk and are mother and son only talks. I sure do miss that. I have po know and hug you every night. Love you Mommy xoxox

Hey Jerm, As the day gets closer the harder it is. I sure do need your help. I hurt with so much pain. Please help me get threw this. The only thing that helps alittle is that I know who my angle is. It MY SON Love Mommy xoxo

Happy Easter Honey. You are in our hearts and thoughts as always. Hope you like your Easter basket Grammie made for you. We love you so much...missing you forever. OX

Happy Easter Jerm, The Holidays will never be the same with out you, Although I know you are near, its just not the same, nothing is. But having you as a son is what keeps us going. A son is many things, He is happy memories of the past, joyful moments of the present, The hope and promise of the future, but most of all, A SON IS LOVE! I love you Jerm. Dad

Happy Easter Jerm, I sure wish you where here. I'v been looking out the door for you. Nicole wrote you a note with the side walk chalk, I you can read it. The holidays are real hard for me. I love you miss you every day. Love Mommy p.s Hope to see soon

Hey Jerm, I thought about you a lot today. You will never be forgotten. <3

Hey Buddy, I recently have read an email that was about nothing more then "Not giving up" easier said then done...these days! Although as I sit here, I can't help but think of you, As I do always. A magnificent smell comes over me, one that I have smelled before. I can't help but think it is you passing through the room. I know it is! Jerm, I can't give up. You wouldn't want that, So stay with me, as I know you will, and I'll try my best everyday to make you Proud, as proud as I am of you..."My Son" LUV U, MISS U! Dad.

Hello,Jerm Well 23 months 1 more then to has been 2 long years. I still think you are coming home. I wish so bad that you would walk threw the doors and say every thing is OK. I miss you more every day. You know every one says it gets easy but for me it is harder. I sure do need your help. I wish so bad that I could be up there with you. But I have to take care every one here. If I did not have Gramma and Grampa and Tony and the kids I would be up there with you. I sure wish hope you don't hate me for that. I hope you like the eggs gramma but on the tree for you, and the flowers I put out for you, and the other things. I miss you Jerm Love HUGS AND kisses too you. Mommy

Hi Jeremy: I love that great picture of you. It looks as if you are looking at us saying: "I'm Ok and happy so all of you be OK and happy too!" You are in our thoughts and prayers. Love, Aunt Karen, Gramma Pahel, Gramme Shaw and Aunt Sue

Happy Valentine's Day Jeremy- Love ya, Jenny

Morning Buddy, 22 months today. I see you in my mind all the time, I surround myself with your pictures, I talk about you every chance I get. You see Jerm, you are my life...you always have been, and you always will be. My hope today is that are Happy. more happy then anyone could possibly imagine. Just knowing you are safe, and in the best place ever, make me feel some what at peace. Although the pain has never left me, The emptiness has never been filled. I just wish I had you to talk to, laugh with, and hold like in times past. I love you so much Jerm, and miss you even more. Please hear my Prayers Buddy. Please walk with all of us, and Grace everyone one of us with your presence. I Luv U! Dad,

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